The Bride Burning

Nov 23, 1998
The Bride Burning is an autobiographical novel about my arranged marriage in India, and the subsequent psychic abuse and terror of a young girl, raised and educated in the West, who escaped death by fighting back.

"The " is an autobiographical novel about my arranged in ,  and the subsequent psychic abuse and terror of a young girl, raised and educated in the West,  who escaped by fighting back.  Although my case was rooted in a to a Muslim, the cultural of is a universal issue on which this book focuses.  I quote from my introduction to "The ":  "It is about the dualism triggered within the geopolitical framework of our shrinking globe as old-world tranditionalism interacts with the struggle for individual and the consciousness-raising of current ...  "The " is a book of anger:  The anger of a girl involuntarily subjected to becoming the scapegoat of dualism:  The currents of change and regression, the stagnation of rigidly inflexible traditionalism and the absence of suport- structures in modern self-determinism. The irrational impulses at work in this power struggle trigger an
odyssey into the mind's insanity and hell.  As the individual is stripped of power in favor of Group-Think, the collective self-deception of a system steeped in parochial patriarchies,  a form of cultural abuse and conditioning occurs:  The woman becomes a victim of submission, easily losing her sense of self-esteem and personhood. The manipulators opportunistically exploit the veil of and tradition (distorting the true essence of ,) to suit their own selfish and greedy interests and motivations of power. 
thus becomes a pretense masking , egoism,  and hubris.  The weak and oppressed, primarily and ,  are scapegoated in this power-lust.

Continued introduction:  "We are the construct of our outer and inner environments, our cultural myths and iconogaphy which color our childhood. For Hindu in ,  the rite of Suttee was abolished first by the Muslim emperor, Akber,  then the British in 1829.  Suttee was the ritual or murder of on the funeral pyres of their dead husbands, an act of immolation reserved for the eilite, for queens.  Nonetheless,  in the last few decades, there has been throughout a resurgence and revival of 'dowry-deaths' or bride-burnings, in which young are driven to by greedy
and rapacious in-laws disappointed in their dowries.  Fear edges the silver lining to the Indian mystique:  A fear of and social castration, tales of horror tattooed into the DNA of an Indian woman from birth ... The is the true account of one Indian girl who fought the forces of heredity, and got away.  But my story is an ancient one, written in blood on Suttee Gats:  Those who walked voicelessly to a burning hell, never living to tell the tale.  The futility of their snuffed lives is scarred into my flesh, branded on me like a curse:  That legacy of blood, and vices in the wind of
unmourned, forgotten .  I, Fatima Shahnaz,  shall not be able to live with myself under this blood-soaked ,  these memories of . ,  a necropolis of tombs and epic myths, of maharajahs and fairytales ... Like the queens of our ,  I am but foam on the ocean:  Our story is ash on the wind,  water and air.  For , living and dead,  I write this story.  For Suttee,  the Chaste Wife, I see redemption.  We place ourselves on the pyres of human conscience; If not this life,  the next brings release from our trial by fire... When our bodies are snatched from us,  tortured, our minds bent and
mutilated,  we find release from suffering within.  We shall reach the place beyond the fire and burning places.  We touch the first threshold, the plateau of human understanding at the Great peaceful aboe in the Himalayas of the soul where no flames touch, and glacial waters cleanse. Chastened,  purified,  mellowed,  tempered, we reach the immortal state that transcends boundaries and confinements defined by men:  We seek the silent spaces, within.  Our eyes, mirrors of truth painted in the lamp-black of centuries;  our voices in the wind
combing the tombs of kings.  We speak with the breath of antiquity, the undying soul of centuries.  That is a purifying rite,  the transcendenc of ego, t he acceptance of our own indeterminacy and tolerance for the of others.  Then,  the Suttee Bride is the Chaste Wife,  the woman redeemed, relieved of her earthbound husk, the impurities of Self and selfishness,  a world fighting fo , domination and killing for power.  We hold a torch in the dark before rebirth. Mankind will not stand by and witness our burning:  Mankind will not immolate truth.  Looking up to the stars through preordained
doom and millennial tears, we seek the hand that touches,  the heart that reaches.  Then, we know there is healing. Then,  the burnings will stop.  And there is deliverence from , the immolation of woman."

From The Bride Burning by Dr. Begum Fatima Shahnaz of Sorbonne University, France.