Is Love an answer to a healthy relationship...

I’m sitting on a rock above a hill, cool misty zephyr flow through me, scattered clouds, river flows over the board & I’m thinking, what is desirable the mainly in a good quality relationship. Would it be an understanding, laughter’s, a good time together, a simple hello, passion, lust or just Love? These things make me perplexed & I am in a dilemma... as why is it too hard to have a good relationship and to keep it... why so many factors, why not there be just an uncomplicated factor and we should have a grand existence... why?

People utter... "Love" is an answer to a healthy relationship... but I believe... a relationship start with a simple hello, later it become an understanding, later on it evolve and flourish when the partners notice the similitude in thought processes, likeliness and framework of each other’s mind.

I also feel..."Love" is not the only factor for a good relationship, as "Love" give you expectations and ideation; but I think staying together enhance the understanding factor more & then good understanding made the person in habit of another.. & when two partners become the habit of each other, love becomes secondary… When a person confesses, he or she cannot live without a person it doesn’t mean he in love. Rather all the things they have done together & having the feel or closeness of one another, it is being in habit (aka ADAT) of each other the thing which matters the most is a Good Mutual Understanding. It gives you Ideas, passion and energy for a good future & later over the years Love develop too & giving more strength to this relationship.
I think we can Love yet again & again... However, if we are lucky enough to find someone, with whom we develop a mutual understanding & also become a habit… I think we are then the luckiest person.