KiranNY’s ilog

This is one of the interesting ilog I read. I admire her courage to write down how she feels in relationship and after the breakup. It is sad but I think she is pretty naive about throwing all her eggs in one basket.

When I start reading the ilogs I thought of her as a coach who announces the game plan before playing the game. Her writing showed she has too much dependence on someone other then herself and too much drama of love is in the air. The guy can become bored of no challenge in this scene and I think this happened in last or not, he might be genuinely sick; I hope not.

I am neither sad for her nor happy at same time. She got the lesson early and no longer is with a quitter; this is an asset for a life time. How many people have the first love ended up in marriage anyways? So join the majority, KiranNY. Every step you take in life is for learning so learn from this and don’t try to fall in love; rising in love is a better option ;)

Sista, I suggest enjoy the breeze and coming spring in NY (damn just realise today is 60 degrees), greet people with smile and see the magic how you get showered by love and friendships. Relationships, especially in young college age needs little balance and attitude, generally speaking guys or girls lost the interest in submissive partners way too easily... what we call Ghar ki murgee daal barabar - that is - wo haseena jo hamesha maan jaati hay :)

I remember in college days of my life, the girl who becomes steaker (not stalker) to the boyz can get rid of by using two popular ones:

1) Sweetheart, I am terribly sick and will die in couple-a year. I will always love you but don’t want to hold your back.

2) I am gonna go to Pakistan/India/world tour and will call you once I get back. This will open the back door in already boring relationship if incase no one else is available.