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Response to "How do you stop" by smalyck

Posted: Aug 13, 2008 Wed 10:36 am     Views: 138    Interacts: 0

The problem with asking questions is that one has to be prepared to deal with the answer :o

So, how do you stop?

Don't let go of love. To love is to be alive.

You could let go of wanting to be loved by this person.

The "hold" the situation has on you is not that you suffer cause you love him. You suffer cause he does not love you back. So you should let go of wanting to be loved by him, and just instead feel free to revel in the love you have for him.

And if you can, extend it to others in your life. Really indulge in love. Love your friends even more. Love your parents even more. Your siblings. Other folks.

Just don't block the love...let if flow freely.

Soon you will feel much more joy in giving love, in being loving, than in receiving love.

For you always have love to give, that gift is always there. But if you rely on receiving love for happiness, that supply is sketchy and not always available.

Does this make sense?


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