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Recently by Delirium
- Further to Quin's post on Motherland......Hope
- Tourism _ ( In response to Taji's Post )
- Seeking advice from Men
- Have Mercy on Pappu please!
- True Relations
- Everything I Do...........
- What is the Reality?
- Broken Skull brings 'Schumi' Back!?
- Message from Mariposa---"Tahir's Court of Awe"
- Trigger the Coup with Hot Zoo !!!
- Is She gonna Do IT ! ?
- Sri Lanka or West Indies ?
- To my Love
- I felt so Happy when he Cried Again
- Man or Woman ?
- Do you know....... ?
Can someone come up with such mesmerizing fiction infringing upon the terrains of fantasy that just leaves you marveling at the very thought or idea? Unbelievable! The book is absorbing and gripping right from the word go and sustains its charm till the last word.
Love is powerful yet delicate and charming. It is a vital force, an affinity beyond description that forms the core of humanity if not universe. But the way man depicts the emotion and weaves the story, he induces the reader to see it in an entirely different light. There is hardly any manipulation or element of intrigue but an agonizing commitment or conviction derived from the love itself. His ferocious love for the girl of his dreams, a girl with a doe’s gait as the author puts it, only intensifies and unleashes a tale of unbridled emotions, after she heartlessly and unceremoniously dumps him to marry an urbane upscale handsome doctor following an innocent affair of years, to the point where one wonders whether it is the case of insatiability of a bruised ego or settling scores rather than pure love for Florentino Ariza?
For his own self, a poor and rather ordinary looking guy, the man is portrayed as a pure personification and a living example of love. His expression in every artistic form exudes, radiates and dissipates love_ A man with congenital love infused and soaked in his DNA. During the course, drawing all his hope, might and strength from his belief in love and himself, he rises in social stature and achieves enormous success in life secretly convinced and preparing himself for his ultimate encounter with his beloved.
Ironically, the man in hot pursuit of his darling undertaking an audacious journey on the path of love that transcends half a century, despite heaps of patience and tolerance to bank on, earns the reputation of a pervert indulging in various clandestine affairs involving women of all ages, creed and backgrounds. To quote the author on this interesting contradiction and circular behaviour encompassing an array of love, lust and hope on one occasion
‘With her (Angels Alfaro) Florentino Ariza learned what he had already experienced many times without realizing it: that one can be in love with several people at the same time, feel the same sorrow with each, and not betray any of them. Alone in the midst of the crowd on the pier, he said to himself in a flash of anger “My heart has more rooms than a whorehouse.� He wept copious tears at the grief of parting. But as soon as the ship had disappeared over the horizon, the memory of Fermina Daza once again occupied all his space.’
While there is no evident account of unfaithfulness on the part of the lady, the only allusion points as far as her approaching the confession box but retracing her steps before expressing herself, the author takes a position and justifies the case of womenfolk in general when Fermina Daza recalls the words of her deceased husband
‘“We men are the miserable slaves of prejudice� He had once said to her “But when a woman decides to sleep with a man, there is no wall she will not scale, no fortress she will not destroy, no moral consideration she will not ignore at its very root: there is no God worth worrying about.�
The accidental death of her husband finally terminates Fermina Daza’s stable marriage spanning half a century. On the occasion, Florentino Ariza only manages to infuriate and disenchant her further by reiterating his love. Well aware that they are fast approaching the inevitable death, his persistence and perseverance eventually pays when a couple of years later, the lady finally succumbs to an incessant streak of letters and meetings. She finally sets out on a marine trip with the man that paves way for their courtship, bonding and union where the senile, wrinkled, stinking and lifeless bodies least matter – but the only thing that matters is love and passion itself.
One might argue despite all its intangibility and ethereal sensation and existence that connects and bonds hearts, minds and souls, why love has to transform into something physical to wield itself as an ultimate power? But not Florrentino Ariza and even Fermina Daza for that matter who asserts
‘“If we’re going to do it, let’s do it, she said “but let’s do it like grownups�
In the end one just wonders whether it was victory of intrepid love or the victory of an invincible man capable of possessing and manifesting such intense contagious love! A couple of excerpts from the very end sum it up so nicely
‘“Do you mean to say what you say?� he asked
“From the moment I was born� said Florentino Ariza “I have never said anything I did not mean�
………and he was overwhelmed by the belated suspicion that it is life, more than death, that has no limits.
“And how long do you think we can keep up this gooddamn coming and going? He asked
Florentino Ariza had kept his answer ready for fifty three years, seven months, and eleven days and nights.
“Forever�he said.
Gifted with a weird ability to differentiate and sense a woman’s scent upon her hubby’s clothing, while Fermina Daza was able to unearth rare infidelities during the course of a marriage that droned on, for the sake of the humanity in general and mankind in particular, one hopes that such blessings of nature remain exclusive.
Before I drone on and on, for I am getting addicted to the narrations and pulverizing works of the man, let me ask your recommendations for the next read from Gabriel Garcia Marquez?
Any fans out there?
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here's my take on the book.. Marquez being Marquez, his style is insanely seductive, and I never stop marveling at his descriptions of human emotions..
In this book though I find florentino to be an insufferable whiner, but may be it was intended to be so..Fermina amazes me.. but th most poignant message of the book to me comes across as the infallibility of certain kind of attachments, and I mean this both in context of Florentino as well as Urbino..
The most hilarious part, as I have always maintained is the tiff between Fermina and Urbino about a bar of soap.. and indeed, that is so life-like.
p.s. Innocent Erendeira and her grandmother / Of love and other demons are two great books to start with Marquez.. One Hundred Years of Solitude could be a little heavy duty at first.. Just my personal opinion, of course.
Not again pls, it’s painful. I will try reading good stuff anyway.
Thanx for the appreciation. Trust me the book is much more interesting than this ilog.
While I was late on the occassion, do lemme know when you are going to bed rest for so long next time. I'll try to come up with an even better review to inspire some good reading :)
Enjoy your summers and winters and have a nice time!
Delirium, Sounds like very interesting book. You should have written ilog before when I was bored during two and a half month bed rest. Now I am late to read it this year.
Too much to do in mountains this summers and in winter come down to valley to help Santa packing gifts.
You wrote it very well.
Thanks for appreciating the review and get your hands on OHYOS now. You won't regret it ..you bet..any amount of stake ... Take it as a word from one fellow engineer to another ;)Nothing about rigid numbers though except for 100 and that's the number of years :)
quin
Can't agree more. It's a pity :) Have mercy now! About time you start reading some good stuff :)
Let's keep such exchanges going. Part or rather more of the responsibility to shape or mould the content rests with us.Yeah that was the most inspiring part that you've picked up from the lines quoted by Fouz. Not that I had any doubts, makes me even sure am never gonna grow old ;)
pity that I have not read Garcia, this surely inspires me ...thx. These are kind of exchange of ideas and understandings I had hoped for at Chowk - little did I know ...(less said the better)
talking about love and for my own relevance, I like the following as quoted by Fouz:
"To all men, I would say how mistaken they are when they think that they stop falling in love when they grow old, without knowing that they grow old when they stop falling in love."
And I just checked my shelf. Yessir. LITOC. Ex-libris, FKK, January 11th, 05 and stamped Book Festival, APMSO NED Unit, Sec(tor) A. It was inevitable. The scent of bitter almonds...In the words of famous philosopher Chris Rock, DAMMMN! :D
Coming to this reading one book thing, I must admit to having a serious problem; I feat that after reading the magnum opus of an author I would not be able to enjoy any more of his works and they would somehow degrade his classic in my eyes; that results in a stupid action of not touching any more of his books. Sidney Sheldon; I read If Tomorrow Comes and was done with him. Paulo; people recommend some of his books but I haven't touched anyone after The Alchemist. What to do! So many books to read, music to hear, art to view and we have not even heard about the best of the best of the best. :(
Before the close of CFY, I am definitely finishing OHYOS; its been sitting there too long; time for it to be where it belongs - beneath my pillow. :)
For me, Grisham is already past, and after Paulo's 'winner stands alone' I think Garcia would be a better option to switch to.
It is LITOC then! :)
Thank you for reading and commenting; Acknowleging no undue credit for the appreciation :)
My personal take is OHYOS is a kindda book that is written in centuries.As you have already read bits and pieces, you must be aware what is it like.
As far as the quality and class of the book is concerned,in my opinion,LITOC falls no where near the former. However, as opposed to a piece of magical realism, it is closer to reality, much simpler and more like a tale or fable enabling develop better understanding and comprehension.As a starter to Garcia's works,it should prove to be an excellent book for reading.Once you have read LITOC, I am sure there is no way you would leave OHYOS half read.
In nutshell, looks like a better idea to go for LITOC first.
Opti
Go for it. Now I find so hard to switch back to Paulo Coelho, Jeffrey Archer and John Grisham.
I am yet to go for 'love in the time of cholera', for I am still not done with 'one hundred years of solitude' :(. I have made 3 attempts at reading the book in past 6 years, never making it to the end, and always convinced that I am not quite getting it. However, you definitely have made me want to move to this one now.
Could this one be a better start to understanding Garcia, or should I stick to my efforts at 100 years of solitude? Any suggestions?
Thanks for reminding us of it! :)
One hundred years of solitude has got a class of its own. It is a kindda book that ( given the time ) I yearn to read over and over again to extract new meanings each time. Carrying deep philosophical metaphors and allusions its hard to explain what the book is all about. I made a humble attempt to describe my brief and limited understanding of this masterpiece in one of my ilogs. Here we go.
http://www.chowk.com/ilogs/71328/48505
If you ask me, go read it one hundred times dude. At least start reading it for once now :)
Thanks for sharing all that insight about the great man, his thoughts, ideas, approach towards life and love. Yes he makes you feel like crying but intensifies your craving for luv simultaneously.....As if wanting you to relish the pain that unconditionally accompanies love.
Pity won't be seeing any more creation from a man with an unmatched talent but such is life!
Nobel Prize winner for literature, has retired from public life for reasons of health. He has a form of cancer, which is terminal. He has sent a farewell letter to his friends.
It is moving to see how one of the best and most
brilliant of writers expresses himself & with sorrow. (even as I'm sure this would have sounded twice as good in Spanish, enjoy the English version nonetheless.
A GENIUS SAYS GOODBYE FOR GOOD, he says:
If God, for a second, forgot what I have become and
granted me a little bit more of life, I would use it to the best of my ability. I wouldn't, possibly, say everything that is in my mind, but I would be more thoughtful of all I say. I would give merit to things not for what they are worth, but for what they mean to express.
I would sleep little, I would dream more, because I
know that for every minute that we close our eyes, we waste 60 seconds of light. I would walk while others stop; I would awake while others sleep. If God would give me a little bit more of life, I would dress in a simple manner, I would place myself in front of the sun, leaving not
only my body, but my soul naked at its mercy.To all men, I would say how mistaken they are when they think that they stop falling in love when they grow old, without knowing that they grow old when they stop falling in love. I would give wings to children, but I would leave it to them to
I have learned so much with you all, I have learned
that everybody wants to live on top of the mountain, without knowing that true happiness is obtained in the journey taken & the form used to reach the top of the hill.
I have learned that when a newborn baby holds, with
its little hand, his father's finger, it has trapped him for the rest of his life. I have learned that a man has the right and obligation to look down at another man, only when that man needs help to get up from the ground.
Say always what you feel, not what you think. If I
knew that today is the last time that that I am going to see you asleep, I would hug you with all my strength and I would pray to the Lord to let me be the guardian angel of your soul.
If I knew that these are the last moments to see
you, I would say 'I love you'. There is always tomorrow, and life gives us another opportunity to do things right, but in case I am wrong, and today is all that is left to me, I would love to tell you how much I love you & that I will never forget you. Tomorrow is never guaranteed to anyone, young or old.
Today could be the last time to see your loved ones,
which is why you mustn't wait; do it today, in case tomorrow never arrives.
I am sure you will be sorry you wasted the opportunity today to give a smile, a hug, a kiss, and that you were too busy to grant them their last wish.
Keep your loved ones near you; tell them in their
ears and to their faces how much you need them and love them. Love them and treat them well; take your time to tell them 'I am sorry';' forgive me',' please', 'thank you', and all those loving words you know.
Nobody will know you for your secret thought. Ask
the Lord for wisdom and strength to express them.
Show your friends and loved ones how important they are to you. Send this letter to those you love. If you don't do it
today...tomorrow will be like yesterday, and if you never
do it, it doesn't matter either, the moment to do it is now.
For you,
With much love,
Your Friend,
Gabriel Garcia Marquez"
Kinda makes you want to want to wipe your eyes and hope no one noticed that, hayna? :)
There are other books as well. Of Love and other Demons, No one writes to the Colonel, etc. Check them out, tell me your views and inflame my yearning to finally pick up his books and read them. :)
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