Taking the Lid off Sexual Fantasies

Re: # 141

Dear Dullabhatti,

You had asked me a question last week ...why teenagers fantasize about older women and

why older men in their 40s fantasize about younger women? I have been thinking about it.

Today I met a married man in his fifties who shared his fantasies about a woman in her 20s.

When I asked him your question he said, ``It is related to the instinct of reproduction.

I cannot have any children with my wife anymore as she reached menopause. I am in my

50s physically but when I fantasize about that young woman I feel very young. In my mind

I can have a child with her``

I thought it was an interesting idea and I wanted to share it with you. I hope it reaches you.

sincerely sohail

Re: # 141
Kyon bhai,
Tainu je SEX daaktar di lorr si te, hakim harkishan Lal, ex lahorian, uddey naale gull kar lenda.

Eh SEX-Daktar mainu jarra doubtful lagda si????

good thing about this discussion is Dr sahib probably picked up couple of patients from here:-) or he should as they are crying for help aloud.:-)

Re #133

drsohail, sex for reproduction ONLY has been a peculiar obsession of Western Christianity. Sometimes, people generalize this to all traditional cultures. This is not true. Other traditional cultures have been more accepting of sex for pleasure, though in marriage only.

You know what Dr Sohail your problem is; you want to hear about it......

ok, I will tell you anyways.

You are so damn uptight, if your interactions and your picture is any measure of who you are then you need to laugh buddy and interact at Chowk`s level. I am serious.

Open up your JOHARI window and let your ISTJ personality type explore the un-innate world.
Stop being a ``I know it all SEX-GOD`` and have fun.

You will be more respected on this site.

#137 by delhiwala
This is what I wrote earlier , here. In case, you missed it.

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#84 by echoboom on April 19, 2006 8:11am PT
Urstruly:

Meer kyaa sadaa hain, beemaar huay jiss kay sabab
Usee attaar kay launday sey davaa laitay haiN.

Sarkaree kharch pUr, canada meiN, upnee phhantsiaaN sunnanai kaa kiss kau shaque na hogaa. Kyaa tumhharay amreekaa meiN yeh xxx kaam upnay pullay sey paisay dey kr krnaa pRRtaa hai?

kabhhee aye haqiquat-e mun....

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tr:

``What a simpleton MEER is; He gets his medicine from the pharmacist`s nubile helper-boy, the very nubile one who is the centre of Meer`s incurable fantasy.

Under Canada Universal Health Plan, who would not avail the opportunity to recite his own fantasies to the Psyche-tics . In your Amreeka , does one has to pay from one`s own pocket for such xxx facility?

Re: # 135
Dr Sohail,
How is your practice?
Where in Toronto you are located?
If I send you some patients, what would be my commission?
Are you related to Khamkhwa by any chance(just wanted to make sure)?

I never had any good experience with Pakis in Amreeka, they all are tharkees, sexually depraved species.....

Waisey burra nahee maanNa, when I was in Delhi there was a Punjabi play in Delhi called ``Tharkee Budda``. It was really fun.

Some Psychiatric humour--satire:

The psychiatrist was sold lock-stock-and-barrel on the superiority of the western ways over his own paki-potpouri culture . His self-loathing had reached a muffled crescendo within him and this repression within him had become a pressure-cooker.

O! if the world listens to him & rather than the learned ones back home. A taboo-free world, where he himself could put into practice his own oedipus complex , be it as a fantasy--the picture & video would do as props. A little incest never really hurt anybody--was that not take when he was with his `no morality is the best morality` crowd.

It was late late at night & he was fantacising he favourite oedipus complex, picture in hand..when,

He was rudely brought back to the real world by another psychiatrist--his live-in hom-o-bi-multitasker.

*``The toddler won`t sleep``--the live-in mentioned about the 3 yr old they had adopted.

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and why not?

* he is bawling out, that he must take a look at the big worm he spotted in the garden yesterday.

.........but it is 3 am, bitterly cold & totally dark near the ravine

* Yaa Yaa but remember we agreed on the theory that childhood trauma is bad for the sub-cons..; that ``every thing goes`` shall be our faith, credo if you may. you even wrote a book after you abandoned religion

.........O.k don`t rub it in now. Lets grab him & be done with it

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So , flashlights in each hand, shivering even in their down-jackets & gowns, teeth chattering, they finally, after 2 hours of misery managed to locate the worm.

The kid asked them to take the worm inside. They complied--it was a matter of subconscious.

Huddled together, just as they eagerly went back to their beds, the kid was bawling again.

The kid insisted on getting the worm fried in a pan.

They trudged down the stairs, groggy & frazzled towards the kitchen, all in the interest of serving their adopted creed & breed.

They fried the worm. The toddler was ecstatic. He liked his breastless mom who always prevailed upon his skirt-clad dad.

Here eat it. The kid was told.

The kid cried copious tears: No No No you must eat the half of the worm with me.

to cut a long story short, they complied with all demands, in the service of humanity & no-morality creed, and ate half of the worm.

but the bawling was now such that the neighbors woke up.

The kid was screaming: You`ve eaten my half of the worm``!

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The present Dr. Fraud, was Dr. Archie Freud in US, wase Dr. Arshad Fareed in Lahore,
was our own from our pind: the Phheedaa from chuk 420 mauzaa Harrappa.

narrated something like this when he was given his first assignment in animal behaviour class.

He was asked to keep a baby monkey under observation & jot down all the doings & undoings of the baby-monkey. This he had to commence after keeping the monkey in 5 days solitary with nothing except the four walls. Lot of monkey porn posters were displayed & movies run endlessly without disclaimers or ratings.

A peephole was there for the Psychiatrist to record his findings--all in the interest of `` No morality, is the best morality`` creed. His room was adjacent to that of the monkey--and the Psychiat was provided with ample human-porno stuff as well.

After five days when the dr. went to peek through the peep-hole; he was dumbfounded!


There was another eye on the other side! the baby monkey`s eye.

Re: # 131

Dear Dehliwala...It seems you have two sides to your comments. The funny side that I can

just read and be amused and the serious side that I can react in a serious manner. I agree

with you that Freud was impressed by Greek Philosophy and Literature. His analysis of

human psychology by his understanding of characters presented in Greek Plays....for

example the Oedipus Complex was borrowed from a Greek Play. Freud`s Genius is that he

brought many concepts from literature into human psychology and talked about it in a

scientific way and tried to prove his concepts of Unconscious Mind and Defence Mechanisms

by the detailed studies of his patients and presented to the world. Since the science of

psycholoanalysis was in infancy many of his theories are not accepted today but

still his contributions are valuable. For example anthropologists challenged the universality

of Oedipus Complex. Freud grew up and analyzed WEstern Family system,the nuclear family

system that is why he is challenged by those experts who grew up in Extended family

System and Tribal System where uncles and grandfathers can also be father figures. It is

a big subject but I wanted to answer your serious question. sincerely sohail

Re: # 99

purdah! kaisa purdah...dilli ka purdah tou bahut pehle khul gaya tha bhatti sahib...tuannu aje kujh nazar nain aaya ...;)

Re: # 132

Dear Kurrum....you have a valid point. I am glad you picked up on it. I feel in religious

traditional cultures sex is allowed even encouraged within the institution of marriage

but still asked to do it for REPRODUCTIVE reasons. It is the same in Catholicism.

Sex for RECREATIONAL reasons is not encouraged even discouraged. Even mastrubation

is discouraged. SELF PLEASURING is presented as SELF ABUSE. sincerely sohail

Re #78 ``When i read Bahishti Zaiver it
reflected the morality or a religious culture where sex is sin``

drsohail, I think this comment is a little unfair. In traditional cultures only sex outside of marriage is a sin. Enjoyment of sex within marriage is encouraged.

Drsohail,
Now I can rest knowing that you are a real doctor.
You must understand that this is Chowk and out of the blues shows up on FP as SEX-Doctor.
That should alarm any Chowkie. That is why I was very sceptical.

Now, let us talk real business, if I may.

It is widely believed that Sigmund Freud borrowed his thesis or some ideas from Aristotle and ancient Greeks, speaking of which Alexander and his Love affair with his Young mother comes to mind.

In your professional opinion, does male Sexuality takes its early formulation from their love to the first woman they come close to.

I understand that it is a very taboo subject but Western Scientist, including Freud and his daughter do believe that there is some merrit on this thought.

Re: # 126
Ek mere walo vi paish e khidmat hai.

Mat pee sharab galib masjid vich baithkar
Eyk hi botal hai, kithey khuda na mang ley

HP sahib mulaheza ho Akber Allahbadi in 21st century.....

purday meiN kul jo aieeN nazar chand beebiyaaN
Akbar zameen pe zillat-e qaumi say guR geya

poochaa kay kub se aankh pe purda yeh pur geya
boleeN kay jub say aql pe murdoN kay puR geya

...........:)

#125--Freethinker and #126--Sohail

ijazat?
with `tassaruf`:

hUmaari tumHaree kharabee hai yaaro
na tum daikhtai ho, na hUm daikhtay haiN

;)