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Cyber Love

Ammara Ahmad May 19, 2006

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#13 Posted by Saadvaqar on July 2, 2007 10:42:33 am
people want nothin but just time pass
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#12 Posted by jadoogar on June 15, 2007 5:03:08 pm
Hmmm. I met my lady online in 2000. We are happy. I know 3 more success stories as well. It is very possible that things go right.
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#11 Posted by Annu on June 19, 2006 4:17:32 am
The devil is in the details. Dating both on the net and physical is like seeing the drawing room of a house. Wait till you visit the washroom, the kitchen, the lounge and the bedroom. Only then can you know or comment on the actual position of the house. The same is true for individuals. They are very nice but when you actually come to know about them in finer details, they are mostly cruel, dishonest, insensitive, selfish, self centered and thus unattractive.
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#10 Posted by articulating on May 31, 2006 10:09:34 am
``I do not disagree with acquainting with each other, as a precursor to dating, on the internet. After knowing each other enough on the internet, people can meet up for a date if they feel it right for themselves. ``
the article doesnt disagree with people meeting online and then proceeding to real life romance.....it only narrates a few hazards of such unions.......
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#9 Posted by epiphany on May 31, 2006 5:34:35 am
Hello, Ammara jee!

(Interesting article likha hai aap ne)

Somethings I found to be variably context specific, here. One of these is the choice of country; in a secular society people can meet up physically while dating and have the final say in who they marry.

We know that the choices we make are our responsibility and we must face the consequences of these as a result. In the name of accountability the best thing is to be really sure if your choice of marriage is the correct one. And how can we be sure without dating him/her?

I do not disagree with acquainting with each other, as a precursor to dating, on the internet. After knowing each other enough on the internet, people can meet up for a date if they feel it right for themselves.

But online romance that develops for two people without adequately knowing (and worse, without meeting) each other is something that we must avoid; it is unhealthy.

Peace!

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#8 Posted by articulating on May 24, 2006 3:33:34 am
This article was dealing with the hazards of Cyber love. Cyber love and sex are both the new-age realities....they exist....and this article does`nt denounce any of them.....by the way than for sharing.
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#7 Posted by articulating on May 24, 2006 3:33:12 am
This article was dealing with the hazards of Cyber love. Cyber love and sex are both the new-age realities....they exist....and this article does`nt denounce any of them.....by the way than for sharing.
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#6 Posted by MuslimPaki on May 23, 2006 11:41:58 pm
Ref #4 articulating

I thought , this Article was in response of bitter experience faced by Writer that`s why i thanked.

How something personel can be done w/o you ``Articulating``.Still reading this article i believe on cyber love and sexxx.










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#5 Posted by Danu on May 23, 2006 11:05:25 pm
This article is very well written but snubbed alot of things becauze it only consider the negative impacts of internet friendship in other words romance but the good thing with this article is mentioning reality and imagination..............................
WellDone and keep it up.........
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#4 Posted by articulating on May 23, 2006 3:33:56 am
thanx Faiz.....the first guy complained its not personal enough ...and you thanked for sharing the personal events.....whats going on.....?
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#3 Posted by MuslimPaki on May 23, 2006 2:46:52 am
Ammara very truly written ...

Thanks to share your PERSONAL experienes.


Faiz


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#2 Posted by articulating on May 20, 2006 11:20:54 am
The article is upto the word limit......for examples and more material.....wait for part 2 ...lol
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#1 Posted by kaptain on May 20, 2006 3:40:56 am
nice discrete reality brought to the fore..but even when this is being written down..many are falling prey..to somebody`s..falsely - purported claims of physique..good cars..good luck..

psychology is natural to understand the trend..which act as barrier..and serves a film of protection for one..which might be thin or a fortress like..
but that is for one to adapt to the surroundings..

surreal is internet when it comes to emotions..

in short..internet is for cine ticket booking and apparel..buying..
even Amazon is expensive..

more material was to be expected with examples..
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    #12 jadoogar
    #11 Annu
    #10 articulating
    #9 epiphany
    #8 articulating
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    #6 MuslimPaki
    #5 Danu
    #4 articulating
    #3 MuslimPaki
    #2 articulating
    #1 kaptain

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