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The Fertility Debate

Aisha Sarwari May 12, 2006

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#35 Posted by masadi on May 18, 2006 3:20:34 pm
I did a paper on this 5 years back as part of my graduate degree program. I will submit a reduced version of it to chowk, so they can consider it for publication.
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#34 Posted by Ras on May 17, 2006 11:23:15 am


This issue is of utmost importance to Pakistan.

Population control should be a top priority

in the country because without it any progress

made economically is bound to fail.

There are difficult times ahead on this issue

but leaders need to bring it back into the mainstream.

This problem needs maximum exposure and

women need to have a defining voice in it.


Ras
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#33 Posted by ntsyed on May 17, 2006 7:50:27 am
Re: # 32

I apologize for demanding substatiation of your claim. I hope you can find it in your infinite wisdom to pardon my insolence.

:-)~~
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#32 Posted by Zeena on May 16, 2006 8:35:17 am
RE:-# 31

ntsyed
You wrote,{{{Were you giving one, getting one, or videotaping/documenting one?}}

You are the one who started this abuse for me. Did I step on your tail?

What kind of Muslim you are , first abusing me and then when I got even with you , started abusing me more. Not only that blaming all on me.

BTW, this article is not about me , this article is about abortions.

If you have even a little decency left, apologize to the wirtter of this article for derailing this article.

I never derailed this article. enoguh said.

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#31 Posted by ntsyed on May 16, 2006 2:17:14 am
Re: # 30

Awww... that was so thoughtful of you. You`re such a sweetheart!

Care to share the video with the rest of us here?

Were you able to figure out the Benny Hill quote at the end of #27? NO? Awwww again.

Still, though, I`m confused by your earlier statement of witnessing ``millions of women``?

Also, could you please tell me which one of your raw nerve(s) I`ve touched? You certainly seem to have many. I only wish to know so I don`t subject you to the same agony in future.

Anyway, if you can`t substantiate your claim about witnessing ``millions of women`` and videotaping my `family female` [which could very well be none other than yourself, thanks to the anonymity of the Internet forums], as a RADICAL TERRORIST (as you`ve bestowed the title on me at another board) I forgive you in the name of Allah - The One Who has created both you and I.

As such my sincere advice to you is to refrain from making careless comments, for you`ll only make a fool of yourself. And if you do commit the mistake again, try not to get abusive if someone points out the obvious contradictions in your statements. Take the higher road and admit your guilt. Trust me, you`ll do a tremendous service to yourself and your homeland USA.

Sincerely,
:-)~~
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#30 Posted by Zeena on May 15, 2006 4:39:31 pm
RE:-
#27
ntsyed
You wrote,{{{Were you giving one, getting one, or videotaping/documenting one?}}

ntsyed sahib jii

Yes, Sir I was wittnessing one which was gotten by your family female. Your family female was brought to backstreet , got one, I videotaped it ....poor lady got septic and lost her.................

Thank you
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#29 Posted by Salim_Chauhan on May 15, 2006 1:05:59 pm
Shahgul #28, {``It is permissible in Islam to plan your family``}

Shahgul,
It goes like this:

First I will marry Shagufta, then Bilquis, then Neelofar, and finally Kahkasha. Now if I get the hots for Shayla, I will have to retire Shagufta and so on.
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#28 Posted by shahgul on May 15, 2006 11:29:44 am
It is permissible in Islam to plan your family. The prophet in one of his ahadeeth stated that he himself practiced family planning.
The motive, howver should not be to please colonial masters who want a decrease in the black and brown races of the world, while they provide incentives for the `superior race` to propogate their seed as evidenced in European countries like Germany for example.
In America, we reward our single mothers to have a `haram ka baccha` every year by providing free milk, food, medical services and residences to them. When these women cannot bear any more children, they start their teen daughters to proliferate and therefore guarantee the funds coming in.
Folks, take pride in your children and don`t believe the propoganda of `slave` governments who are their master`s voice when they say `kam bachay khushhal gharana`. That is absolute bull.
Yes, Americans are more conservative regarding abortions than men in Muslim coutries. There are more abortions done in the backwaters of countries like Pakistan than by people who go to doctors for them.
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#27 Posted by ntsyed on May 15, 2006 9:57:55 am
Re: # 14

Zeena: ``I have witnessed millions of women going for backstreet abortions in highly unsanitary conditions induced by mid wives ..... In America, where abortion is legal, there are almost no abortion induced complications. ``

Now, how did you manage to ``witness`` such crimes - committed by ``millions of women``, and that too in the ``backstreets``? Were you giving one, getting one, or videotaping/documenting one? And if you acutally did ``witness`` even one, doesn`t that make you an accomplice since abortion is after all a crime in Pakistan. In that case we may just have to add your name to the interpol search warrants along with BB.

Dear child, there ARE illegal abortions in Pakistan, and many of them according to some unofficial sources, but the numbers don`t even come close to even the first million.

As for abortions being legal in the USA, it is not so in all 50 states. I apologize for bursting your nascent made in America bubble, but there are plenty of ``abortion induced complications``. You just may have been too busy ``witnessing`` millions of Pakistani women getting illegal abortions to visit the United States of America you claim to be your homeland.

Please learn to use/be the blowhorn and don`t strain your brain lest you hurt yourself. But again, hints suffice the intelligent and it`s foolish to expect fools to understand anything.


On a side note:-

``Funny that most people in favor of abortion are alive`` - Benny Hill. Figure that out Sweetie.

:-)~~
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#26 Posted by ntsyed on May 15, 2006 9:55:38 am
Giving the benefit of doubt to the author, she may just have been commenting on the book and the views may not be entirely hers. Still, the article does not even fare average, because birth rates have little, if anything, to do with economics and/or education. However, infant and female mortality rates do.

But more to the point, family planning is permissible in Islam as already pointed out in one of the interacts. However, to understand the logic behind any permission, prohibition, order, etc in Islam, one must study the system as a whole. Discussing just a part by itself often does not suffice.

If we put the religion aside for a moment, ponder the following:

-for every child to be conceived there is a pair of chromosomes X and Y.
-XX produces female, and XY produces male
-women only produce X chromosomes, while men produce both
-therefore, the probability of conceiving a female child is 3:1
-in almost every demographic setting, women have a shorter reproductive cycle and even lifespan

Under the circumstances, when women outnumber men by 51:49, what would be the ratio between men and women if abortion is to be legalized and generalized as propagated by Feminazis and their deadbeat male supporters, and EVERYONE fell for family planning crap by the West and the UN? Doesn`t it explain the population decline in the Western hemisphere where now the governments are practically begging the women to have more children?

I`ve posted the following on another board and dare to post here again for your enlightment

“Europe is literally melting away like snow in the sun, slipping from 15.6 percent of the world population in 1950 to 10.2 percent in 1985 and 6.4 percent in 2025.” [World Population at The Turn of the Century, United Nations, New York, 1989, page 8.]

“If you look at Europe and then at other continents, the comparison is terrifying. In demographic terms, Europe is vanishing. Twenty or so years from now, our countries will be empty, and no matter what our technical strength, we shall be incapable of putting it to use” President Jacque Chirac.

“It cannot be expected that the most powerful military nations will sit still while other nations reverse the balance of power by the mere process of breeding.” (Bertrand Russel, Marriage and Morals, 1929)``









:-)~~
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#25 Posted by Salim_Chauhan on May 15, 2006 5:34:53 am
harimau #13 {``Actually, invading Turks introduced buggery to Bulgaria, condemning an entire nation!``}

Harry,
Obviously, you missed out on the recent ``Alexander`` flick. :) The Turks were banging their heads against the Great Wall of China when Alexander was kicking ass all over the Balkans (including Bulgaria, Thrace, and Macedonia), Asia Minor, Mesopotamia, Media, Persia. Oxiana, and India.
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#24 Posted by Checkmate on May 15, 2006 5:06:40 am
A good article. My mother is a family planning consultant and has worked in the most economically deprived areas of Pakistan. I am all for planned families, but I am not exactly a fan of abortions (unless they are done for health reasons). Every right comes with responsibilty. If a woman/man has the right to have control over her/his sex life then they should also be ready to take care of a new life when the condom rips.

I as a women and mother understand the need to be able to have children when you are economically, physically, psycologically and emotionally ready to have a child. Allah is the one who will provide for all souls that are on this earth but we are the ones who need to raise them as good human beings. Once my mohter worked in a very poor locality and a woman who was 20 yrs old already had 4 children and was pregnant with her fifth. The children she already had were sick, hungry, uneducated. What did the 5th child have to expect. But when the subject of family planning came up she was all for it but her elders used to say if you women will not have children then how will we get Imam`s and scholars!!! The locality had the most number of delinquents and drug users.

Family planning is not a woman or man issue. It is a mutual understanding and decision of both husband and wife.


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#23 Posted by bjkumar. on May 14, 2006 9:13:28 am

Author, a higher fertility rate can result from a number of factors. Usually population segments that lag behind economically tend to have a higher birth rate, sometimes to provide additional wage earners, sometimes as a precaution/preemption against a higher child mortality rate, and sometimes simply because of heeding the advice of older female role models because of less independent individual thinking which can be due to less education. There is an inherent falult in the approach of labeling this phenomenon by religion. From reading your summary of the contents, it appears that the original authors have attempted to tread a difficult path - they tried to bring in and encourage a few more liberal concepts related to women`s choices without stepping on the toes of the religious powers. It is indeed sad that a man or a woman would have to look for the approval of a Mullah for something as personal as what you call ``azl`` in this writeup. The problem statement is faulty as well - it should not be whether certain practices are permissible under Islam or not - but why should the religion be allowed such a strong hold on the daily lives of individuals that things which are obvious to the eye need to be justified by using circuitous routes of argument.


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#22 Posted by haideri on May 13, 2006 5:55:32 pm
#1

Escapist,

You must be an idoit Suni. I am sick and tired of your fu**en bulshit. You should shove those so called Holy books up your Suni A*s

God is Great.......

haideri
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#21 Posted by pokershark on May 13, 2006 2:26:23 pm
Brilliant article as always. So insightful.
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#20 Posted by KaalChakra on May 13, 2006 8:01:29 am
Aslam644

Thanks! Some real number crunching, both historical and cross sectional, will be really useful in this area. If that has been done, then it should be more accessible to us ordinary folks.

It will be a hard area to research though. Put religion as a variable in any analysis; immediately, in addition to all other errors, people become far less interested in deriving results from data than in cooking up data from results.

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Interact Index

    #35 masadi
    #34 Ras
    #33 ntsyed
    #32 Zeena
    #31 ntsyed
    #30 Zeena
    #29 Salim_Chauhan
    #28 shahgul
    #27 ntsyed
    #26 ntsyed
    #25 Salim_Chauhan
    #24 Checkmate
    #23 bjkumar.
    #22 haideri
    #21 pokershark
    #20 KaalChakra
    #19 herono1
    #18 aslam644
    #17 aslam644
    #16 KaalChakra
    #15 Zeena
    #14 Zeena
    #13 harimau
    #12 aslam644
    #11 khurram
    #10 jang
    #9 Salim_Chauhan
    #8 nasah
    #7 Salim_Chauhan
    #6 jang
    #5 ferozk
    #4 wiseguyin
    #3 chaltahai
    #2 Kamath
    #1 escapist

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