Sexless and Loveless Marriages

....and please do us a favor, quit writing these miserable articles, and censoring those that are much beyond your grade school intellect,

Have a nice day,

TNI Masadi

Sohail writes "Dear yousaf....."

The guy's name if you read his nick is Yusuf not Yousaf. Quit trying to imitate the white man.., he will forever consider you an inferior peon...

Have a nice day,

TNI Masadi

Sohail sahib don't try to save face by claiming you know nothing of my articles. You miserable liar...

Have a nice day,

TNI Masadi

Re: # 39
Masadi sahib...Where are your articles published? I would like to read. do you like green or black tea?sohail

Sohail writes "Masadi sahib...reading my other articles you believed i followed your footsteps and writing style. why not this time?...smiles...sohail"

No way shrink sahib, not the writing style the style of referencing, it was a copy of mine because you are greatly impressed by my articles that you censor blatantly. Regarding "writing style", you have to go trough 26 more years of shrink school to equal that...

Have a nice day and keep the chai brewin...

TNI masadi

Re: # 37
Dear yousaf...It seems as if my article offended you. I am sharing some realities and hoping that people learn the wisdom of the heart. I am in favour of loving relationships but realizing that LOVE is a VERB and not a NOUN. Maybe you can share your ideas how couples can keep their LOVE ALIVE in their marital relationships.
In my opinion Chowk is a wonderful forum to share ideas and have a genuine dialogue
all the best...sohail

I don't understand the need to put out such depressing attitudes towards marriage- If you think the western countries are overflowing with single men and women living blissfully then your whole measure of satisfaction and love is wrong- Marriage is more than just having multiple orgasms. Agreed that people should make better judgements in choosing their spouses and starting a family. Mr. Sohail's underlying suggestions to the readers seem like he is patronizing the freedom toting men and women of the post modern world and I feel that is a degradation of ethics that unfortunately the so called pseudo-educated people have come to identify with happiness. Well best of luck to all of you that identify with happiness in that sexual paradox- for you don't know and will never know true happiness. Learn from the learned masters and not from pseudo intellectuals who are going round in cirlces themselves. Its a sorry state of affairs that chowk has become a hub of such sorts.

Re: # 35
Masadi sahib...reading my other articles you believed i followed your footsteps and writing style. why not this time?...smiles...sohail

Sohail sahib, I know chowk has low standards but this is no place to vent your Sex(less) life....

Have a nice day and take it easy,

TNI masadi

Re: # 23
dear kulharee...always enjoy your feedback especially your sense of humour...a left over falafel...a new idea...how is music going?...all the best...sohail

What health & Happiness .For married men to be on Viagra & answer to all the promises of penis Enlargement ?

And while parents are screwing who will go to PTA meetings Drive the kids to school Check colleges beore high school And after 5 years they need day care and kinder garten

psychologist Sb. you spend your time too much musing philosophies of Jung Freud Whatever I dont think u have time to be married in the real sense of the word and what really is unhealthy and un happy are your non exsistent children..

If you do all those things your wife will LOVE you and consequently you will love her more ..

Dr. Sohail,

Excellent article. For us asians the statement below made absolute sense.

"When my Eastern friends focus on the high divorce rates in the West, I share with them that stability of marriage in the East is no reflection of health and happiness of marriage. I know many loveless and sexless marriages of the East."


Adios

Re: # 30
your letter made me smile. i did not see CNN show. this article was sent to chowk a few months ago....sincerely sohail

Dr Saab..please stop stealing ideas from CNN...didnt they do a show this sat with DJ Hughly andthe rabbi on this topic. Show some originality

this article is about role of sex in marriage. that article http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/24/us/24sex.html?em i tought would be additional reading on this topic.

love

Re: # 26; dialogue

do you always do as the 'pastor' tells you on other matters too? ... if yes, fair enough; if no, then where's the relevance?