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That Peculiar Feeling Of Falling Out Of Love

Taji M September 12, 2009

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#47 Posted by AukhaJutt on September 19, 2009 8:55:41 am
taji i luv you bebay....
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#46 Posted by tahmed32 on September 17, 2009 4:21:17 am
#40 Professor Masadi: and isnt your "Have a nice day" in #34 also then a "corporatized emotional management tools that cheapen the true expression of human emotions"?

PS: just asking, so please dont tell me to stand on the desk during recess.
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#45 Posted by zeemax on September 17, 2009 3:59:04 am
#44 tahir,

Are you referring to the scene where Brando asks her to repeat 'Freedom' again and again, with a butter dish handy for lubrication?

I hope not :)
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#44 Posted by tahir on September 17, 2009 3:46:36 am
Re: # 43

"Bewkoof aadmi, have you ever seen happiness/bliss in your life? I have and if you want come over to my place, I will show you."

Don't show them the kind of happiness that Marlon Brando talked about in the movie 'LAST TANGO IN PARIS'.

:)
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#43 Posted by Humsab on September 17, 2009 1:19:48 am
Masadi aqal ke dushman
This love thing is very personal and emotional. So, you can't judge whether it is fake or not. And my expression is for those who deserve and only they can judge whether it is fake or not.
Bewkoof aadmi, have you ever seen happiness/bliss in your life? I have and if you want come over to my place, I will show you.
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#42 Posted by Taji on September 16, 2009 9:04:05 pm
TNITC you sound so disgruntled. I wonder why?

I agree with you on one point though, casual "I love you" can trivialized the emotion. But we cannot really judge who is saying that from his/her heart and who is just mouthing the words.
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#41 Posted by TNITC on September 16, 2009 6:49:25 pm
Humsab writes "I am not a capitalist. I am just a poor middle class person..."

You don't have to be a capitalist to be deeply immersed in their mass culture and you certainly are....keep expressing your fake love, you cheapen the emotion by doing so....
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#40 Posted by TNITC on September 16, 2009 6:48:28 pm
#37 it cheapens true love, ever hear the casual "I love you" while ending the telephone conversation, just like the casual hello, and have a nice day- there are corporatized emotional management tools that cheapen the true expression of human emotions.
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#39 Posted by anil on September 16, 2009 2:14:49 pm
Re: # 34

Masadi Mian:

"...Doesn't the capitalist tell you that you can love your car, your donut and even the suppository you take for your bowel movement in the advertisements he puts out...."

More important question is what is it that you are telling "you can love". It seems you only talk about what "you cannot love". It seems to me that you hate everything in this world. Do you love your religion?
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#38 Posted by Humsab on September 16, 2009 12:03:12 am
My Dear Asadi (God's gift to World)
I am not a capitalist. I am just a poor middle class person leading a peaceful life.
The prescription i have posted is not just words. I practice what I preach.
Try to get some affection out from your system for others. You can start with Mr. Hamidm. Rest assured, you will become peace personified.
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#37 Posted by Taji on September 15, 2009 10:39:34 pm
# 36 TNITC
What's wrong in expressing love?
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#36 Posted by TNITC on September 15, 2009 7:20:53 pm
Humsab writes "Be a giver even in love. Use those three words 'I Love You' as many times as you feel without any hesitation and never hesitate in showing your love."

A plastic capitalist prescription where words that are cheap eminate from one who feels nothing very readily. Actions and "signs" reveal love more so than words...
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#35 Posted by TNITC on September 15, 2009 7:15:36 pm
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#34 Posted by TNITC on September 15, 2009 7:14:58 pm
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#33 Posted by csg on September 15, 2009 11:56:25 am
"The truth is that people like Dr. Sohail have no such qualification as to preach on what is good and bad for the rest of society."


Really?? what makes you such an authority on people's professional credentials? apart from being a misogynist hate freak?

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#32 Posted by parthaab on September 15, 2009 4:36:08 am
Re: # 30

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    #46 tahmed32
    #45 zeemax
    #44 tahir
    #43 Humsab
    #42 Taji
    #41 TNITC
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    #39 anil
    #38 Humsab
    #37 Taji
    #36 TNITC
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