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All Boys

Vaibhav Jain October 13, 2009

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#36 Posted by mistaken_enigma on October 25, 2009 6:04:51 pm
Re: # 35

The same way I decided that felonies and misdemeanors are not.
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#35 Posted by rahul_capri on October 22, 2009 8:45:22 am
Re: # 34
Fair enough.How did you decide its appropriate?
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#34 Posted by mistaken_enigma on October 22, 2009 12:44:01 am
Re: # 33

That's not what I said. I said that the state has all the right to legislate against the inappropriate.
And it is in defining homosexuality as not inappropriate that I argued that it's unfair to oppose it.
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#33 Posted by Kautalia on October 21, 2009 8:50:03 pm
Re: # 30

If you want equal rights for 'Inappropriate' get your own funding from the coffer of Inappropriates .Its like fanatic Fascist party want funding from Democratic majority funds .no body is asking to police 'inappropriate' or even appropriate ideally .But i wouldnt aprove normally of repeated offender of drug abuse alcoholism debauchery gambler bums .Dont need to kill them just dont fund the misery brought upon them selves .Now this was not specifically for gays etc but 'ANY Inappropriates 'you included in your group
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#32 Posted by mistaken_enigma on October 21, 2009 7:32:52 pm
Re: # 31

Haha. No, my answer is not no.
My point is that you're grouping incorrectly.

If your question morphs to:
Does the state have the authority to regulate 'appropriate' social norms involving two consenting adults through legislation?

Then, my answer is no.
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#31 Posted by rahul_capri on October 21, 2009 5:45:02 pm
Re: # 30
So your answer to 27 is no ?
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#30 Posted by mistaken_enigma on October 21, 2009 4:27:45 pm
Re: # 29

I disagree with the social norm = widely practiced equation.
Social norms simply relate to the rules that a group uses to differentiate between the appropriate and the inappropriate.
The state is incorrect in legislating it in any which way due to the lack of the inappropriate.
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#29 Posted by rahul_capri on October 20, 2009 11:53:18 am
Re: # 28
Are you saying that the state should not legislate against it because it is already the norm,as in widely practiced?
Would the state have been correct in legislating against it if it was not widely practiced?

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#28 Posted by mistaken_enigma on October 20, 2009 11:36:21 am
Re: # 27
Wrt homosexuality, we're discussing changing social norms and making homosexuality as normal as heterosexuality. Don't drag me your way, man :)
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#27 Posted by rahul_capri on October 20, 2009 9:44:26 am
Re: # 26
Let me ask you a general question - because after a couple of more checks you will end up there - Does the state have the authority to regulate social norms involving two consenting adults through legislation?


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#26 Posted by mistaken_enigma on October 20, 2009 9:27:05 am
Re: # 25

haha. My premise, which I should have included, was that one's sexual orientation doesn't hurt another. Thanks for the check.
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#25 Posted by rahul_capri on October 20, 2009 8:35:36 am
"Once that is agreed upon, then it is unfair to oppose it."
You should present a more comprehensive argument.Every illegal act is "natural".
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#24 Posted by mistaken_enigma on October 20, 2009 7:41:04 am
Thanks all for your comments

Re: # 22
Cobra,
Firstly let's not pretend that nature is our homeboy. Claiming we perfectly understand how and why nature works the way it does and what it wants seems a tad bit presumptuous, doesn't it ?

Re: # 23
Rahul,
It is anyways ignorant to consider any sexual expression unnatural. You're resultantly saying that what so many people feel is rubbish and contrived. Once that is agreed upon, then it is unfair to oppose it.

Re: # 14
TOLKININ,
Give it time and hopefully all those inequalities will go away.

Re: # 10
devkant,
I can relate to your experience as my article probably lays it out.

Re: # 8
Those two are tough calls. Way tougher. I seriously wonder when.

Re: # 5
Agreed. But, legally speaking, it was not allowed to be in a relationship with someone of your own sex until now. I agree about the 'yaarana' feel of Indian guys that doesn't care for all the homophobia that exists here.
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#23 Posted by rahul_capri on October 19, 2009 11:07:28 am
Wouldn't it be more logical to oppose homosexuality if it was natural? (I oppose it for that reason)
Why oppose something which is already unnatural?
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#22 Posted by Cobra on October 19, 2009 10:41:26 am
Gay union is not a natural union otherwise it would have been productive. Nature developed system of copulation for procreation and not fulfill lust for body.
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#21 Posted by tahirtheGman on October 19, 2009 9:42:01 am
Tari. Where are you? Please post a third class I log. I am bored!!!
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    #35 rahul_capri
    #34 mistaken_enigma
    #33 Kautalia
    #32 mistaken_enigma
    #31 rahul_capri
    #30 mistaken_enigma
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