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Sex is Bad

A Shiraz July 29, 2002

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#152 Posted by quest on August 14, 2003 10:17:52 am
RZaidi, Islam is not too different from any other religion. Sex is one of the most important issues in Islam. Whether its sex discrimination, sex punishments, sex stories, sex manners, sex laws or sex with 70 Hoors as a reward hereafter.
And those who do not practice or belive in Islam can not make Islam look like uncivilized barbaric religion.
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#151 Posted by RZaidi on July 23, 2003 10:47:54 am
I dont believe how you could have written something like this and how everybody responding to it is so NORMAL about the whole thing!
You and all people like you are the ones who make ISLAM look like an uncivilized barbaric religion!All you people think about is sex and just because Islam doesnt allow sex outside the institution of marriage Islam is an unfair religion...well let me make this clear...Islam is not unfair and Islam was and continues to be the best religion in the world. Its obvious that you guys need to get in control of your raging hormones and think with your minds instead of your d**ks!!
The day you start doing that you`ll know better than to blame Islam and all of the Muslim world for something that you`re deprived of!
and please please do us all a favor and stop calling yourself a Muslim!
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#150 Posted by RZaidi on July 23, 2003 9:55:03 am
#18 by AAmir on July 31, 2002 10:25am PT

The practice you`re referring to is called Muta`a and it cannot be done with anyone at anytime!! the girl has to be an adult and it has to be with the consent of her father or grandfather, who also have to bear witness to the whole event. It is a temporary marriage and all conditions of a permanent Nikah apply, but the Muta`a can only be done under special circumstances. The Sigheh that you mentioned are actually the verses recited at the proper Nikah that takes place between a man and a woman.

I suggest you get your facts straight and then decide what places a bad reputation on the name of Islam!
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#149 Posted by scout on August 13, 2002 7:27:48 pm
DRUMZ #149,

i luv u 2



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#148 Posted by DRUMZ on August 13, 2002 2:16:34 pm
Scout: I luv U.



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#147 Posted by scout on August 13, 2002 2:07:22 am
drumz #147,

after u sure.



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#146 Posted by DRUMZ on August 12, 2002 6:00:12 pm
Scout: Can u please go to hell? Thanks.



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#145 Posted by scout on August 12, 2002 1:35:14 am
drumz #145 etc....

can u please not discuss my personal matters on chowk. thanks



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#144 Posted by DRUMZ on August 11, 2002 7:29:49 pm
Samina: I was refferin to her vocation.



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#143 Posted by tahmed321 on August 11, 2002 11:22:42 am
Humsab #138 And so we can end this discussion on a peaceful note, and I too wish you all the best.



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#142 Posted by saminashah on August 11, 2002 11:22:42 am
Drumz,

Uh-oh...I guess that in 5 seconds, Scout will come on Chowk with a can of whoop butt...

5........4......3......2.....



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#141 Posted by DRUMZ on August 11, 2002 3:37:22 am
Humsab: ``There are many other people on this site with whom I can indulge in this kind of third class communication.``

U rang?

Samina: Some how i dont believe u but... scout is fine, shes probably too busy up in some dudes mouth to come on chowk these days.



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#140 Posted by saminashah on August 10, 2002 5:36:31 pm
Drumz,

99 percent joking and 1 percent vexed...where is Scout these days?



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#139 Posted by Zakkk on August 10, 2002 5:36:31 pm
Hiya guys, I got the link between Omairs comments now..lol couldn`t resist poking fun though:P



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#138 Posted by PM on August 10, 2002 2:32:47 pm
Deodorant:

Get real! Do yuo have any idea as to the extent of incest in Pakistan?!? Probably not!

read: http://www.popcouncil.org/pdfs/rr/rr_11.pdf

``excerpt: Out of the cases Sahil monitored in 1997, 6 percent involve incest; and this does not reflect the true extent of the practice since most

such cases are unlikely to be reported. In the WAR study cited above, 5 percent of the 149 cases analyzed involve incest committed by step-fathers and uncles, but the author warns that incest rarely makes it to the press although the problem is more common than is widely believed. Another Islamabad-based project to tackle child sexual abuse, Aangan, analyzed a randomly selected pool of 100 confidential letters it had received from

victims/survivors of child sexual abuse. Forty-seven of them were incest cases.``

and

http://www.psychohistory.com/htm/eln03_terrorism.html

excerpt: ``Studies such as a recent survey of Palestinian students show that the sexual abuse of girls is far higher in Islamic societies than elsewhere, with a large majority of all girls reporting that they had been sexually molested as children.12 Even marriage can be considered rape, since the family often chooses the partner and the girl is as young as eight.``

Don`t equate arrest figures with prevalence.



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#137 Posted by Humsab on August 10, 2002 2:32:47 pm
Tahmed # 132

No, I am not annoyed with you simply because I asked you for a reply and hence whatever reply you gave could have been avoided by not interacting. So, fault is mine and I have no right to get annoyed with you.

As I said it was my wrong judgement and I never thought you would try to impute motive where there was none. Once earlier I told you that you are a `Nek` (Decent, Nice) person and so I prefer not getting into arguement with you. Therefore there was no reason for me this time to try to be oversmart with you. There are many other people on this site with whom I can indulge in this kind of third class communication.

Have a great Life.



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