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What will I teach my daughter?

Azmat Hussain September 29, 2005

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#71 Posted by scout on September 30, 2005 12:07:26 pm
Re: # 65


and you look like rahim shah chichora
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#70 Posted by mannyd on September 30, 2005 11:43:14 am
Shankar # 57: `` I know..we hindus arent any better...but Jesus H Christ...I can say Lord Krishna Biblically knew every dudhwalli in Dwarka & not fear for my life....& if any goddamned Pujari has the balls to say....``hey Krishna Bhagwan..tum ko paap lagega``....I have the liberty to flip him..``

LOL...

Bible had not been written yet Shankar and Jesus H was not even a twinkling in his dad`s eye when Krishan Ji was sowing his wild oats. It is not a pleasant task but anyhow..
`` Shankar Papi, tum ko pap lag chuka hai. Dakshina de, tau koi upai bataun..``
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#69 Posted by khamkhwa. on September 30, 2005 10:42:26 am
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#68 Posted by Ltoro on September 30, 2005 10:33:25 am
Chowk Staff - Why hasn`t Saminasha been banned permanently?

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#97 by Saminasha on September 30, 2005 9:38am PT
Stuka,

Fuck you. Seriously. Make all your references than act like it was out of innocence
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#67 Posted by pauper on September 30, 2005 9:50:11 am
A fine example of feminine conversation. Is this how one interacts politely? People have been banned for far less.

#97 by Saminasha on September 30, 2005 9:38am PT
Stuka,

Fuck you. Seriously. Make all your references than act like it was out of innocence.
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#66 Posted by miriamk on September 30, 2005 9:40:09 am
Azmat:

Whatever you do make this more about your daughter’s needs and less about what you think she needs. Sometimes the two can be different. More than anything she’ll need you to be there for her, no matter what.

Oh and I highly recommend you enroll her in a kickboxing class, as soon as she’s old enough. It’ll come in handy when she`s out there on her own;).

Best of luck.
miriam
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#65 Posted by khamkhwa. on September 30, 2005 9:22:17 am
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#64 Posted by khamkhwa. on September 30, 2005 9:15:13 am
azmat hussain saheb...
any relation with aziz miyan qawwal...?
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#63 Posted by khamkhwa. on September 30, 2005 9:14:18 am
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nutty syed...
he is the prophet of stupidism...so be careful...vaise for a change i liked your #34...if only you stayed away from being a mullah, you could be as good as.....(fill in the blanks)...;)
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#62 Posted by kaurasach on September 30, 2005 8:37:41 am
To add to my earlier post. Another factor is that the host or the majority culture pulls in opposite end than the personal heritage. Sikh children go thru hell too trying to balance traditional values with the freedom of the west. But the conflict is not as brutal as amongst muslim children i.e. the esp. the disgruntled British muslim youth who are fodder for the terrorist cells.
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#61 Posted by pauper on September 30, 2005 8:31:28 am
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#60 Posted by Kulharee on September 30, 2005 7:33:33 am
As a father of 2 monkeys being raised in a multi-cultural household, I can tell you that everyday is a new drama. If it is not about being dragged in one direction, then it is about being dragged into the other. One to take to his band practice, the other to soccer games, One car, two parents, One Allah. If you think that I can wait for them to have their own drivers license and drive to their own god damn shyt, you are a moron.

Yaar Ji, go and make another baby instead of cooking these Khiyali Palao about what you want to mold your daughter into. My research suggests that parents (by that I mean mother) have only about 3% control over what their kids grow up to be. The remaining 60% is all about the pedigree and observing what the grownups around them do.

Enjoy your little one while you can.
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#59 Posted by Nadia_Zehra on September 30, 2005 7:04:28 am
cute pic!

sincerely speaking i have not read the article and will tend not as well. seems a bit ambitious whatever , wherever it goes... good document will prevail for the baby if she could relate to it hopefully.

btw it appears you are exhausted of delivering out the baby in the pic. The mother of lil is missing.

Anyways Best wishes,
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#58 Posted by kaurasach on September 30, 2005 7:02:24 am
A confusing article. I think the problem arises from the message of Islam and its conflict with many cherished ethics and morals of the world (natural and human). Many muslims are pulled in the opposite directions, like this author, and thus the confusion.
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#57 Posted by shankar on September 30, 2005 6:13:28 am
How the heck can somebody ``learn`` a religion by blindly memorizing a Holy Book?... may I ask? I doubt if many of you guys who rock back & forth while memorizing the Koran even have the basic understanding of Arabic.

So the author could recite 30 paragraphs by the age of 10
BIG WHOOP!! Its like a kid reciting Sanskrit shlokas from the Gita...without even understand the meaning!

ROTE memorization is an AWFUL way to educate a kid...from what I understand...the mullahs are happy if you memorize the Holy Book & PRONOUNCE the words properly...thats all....

BUTT..

if you DARE question the wisdom or the logic or go against the ``dominant interpretation`` of some of those holy verses, you are...at best admonished... whipped...or made to feel guilty that you are an apostate!....& in countries like Pakistan you can be arrested for blasphemy...

I know..we hindus arent any better...but Jesus H Christ...I can say Lord Krishna Biblically knew every dudhwalli in Dwarka & not fear for my life....& if any goddamned Pujari has the balls to say....``hey Krishna Bhagwan..tum ko paap lagega``....I have the liberty to flip him....thats what I like about a perfect ``buffet religion``...I can take what I want & throw out what I dont like...without fear of recrimination.....

Besides...who wants to spend an eternity with Holier-than-thou morons who think killing is a one-way ticket to Jannat? Can anybody pray tell me WHO is a real muslim?....

I know I know... Long Dong Katlu Ali1 is the truest muslim of all....
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#56 Posted by tahmed32 on September 30, 2005 5:47:01 am
The comment below from Rakapo$h posted on unplugged relates to the above subject and provides a ``thhanday paani kaa chheenta`` to the subject. Ms. Rakapo$h writes:

All I want to say is that all you daddys out there , you have lots of khwaishaiN...aarzooaiN that I will teach her this...I will teach her that...
I will teach her moral values..yoga..meditation respect ..I will teach her falana dhimkaana...
aray Paai mairyO..
vo tumharay sunay gi tau teach kuro gai naa...
vo tumharay paas phutkay gi tau teach kurro gai na..

You will be busy running after her , begging her , doing her khushamud , YOU WILL BE DOING WHAT SHE WILL TELL YOU TO DO...NOT VICE VERSA...
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