What Drives Men and Women of Indian Subcontinent to Infidelity?

See I am not sure why you are pointing out that South Asian men are more into infidelity. I know we guys are always lured about sex and especially if some white women is involved. It is true with at-least a guy like me who came to US to study from Pakistan where we are not even allowed to sit with girls. So for first few months here in US I was all exited to see girls and beautiful white skin. As I was new so it took me while to learn the tricks of flirting and break my virginity. Wow!!! we paki`s are blessed to have these white girls who sleep with us. Now after being here for 5-6 years I am content with that part of life and wanted to get settle and is looking for a girl back in Pak.
Now if you tell me I cheated to all the girls ...answer is NO. First I was only with them for sex only and how can I even think of marrying a White Girl (She will never convert to Islam..and I cannot marry infidels). Even more how can you stop when you get provoked. Listen to latest mission, I briefly met this girl from Maryland couple of years ago and then it didn`t worked. Now 2 and half years later she emails me to say that she needs to see me . Well I took time out of my busy travelling to see her and just to find out that she was dating an Indian dude and now things are not going well and she needs to try me. This proves what this is about sex.....leave one catch... other one..... but I am no less either if she is coming herself so I will also try to reap max out of her at-least physically so that I can get this last piece before getting into wedlock in Pak.
Now can you blame me for Infidelity?? NO....enjoy and if any Paki brother needs help on this topic I can help..may be pass this one on ..once I am done

Athar,

After having gone through your article it seems that the only reason for infidelity seems to be physical. This is in fact just a small seemingly important aspect.

Additionally, you have stressed the need of small vicarious pleasures like staring or shaking hands as the beginning of the long road to infidelity, this is not the case, and should not be taken as such. Look around you and you will see this is not entirely the case.

It seems to be a very very shallow viewpoint which has not been thought over by the writer.

Cheers!

It is well said that there is no need to buy the full costly Pig when your hunger could be satisfied with a string of low priced sausages. This is a clear hint towards having temporary & `time pass` relationships in this mad rushy world where starting, keeping & nurturing a serious relationship is troublesome, risky & naturally costly affair.
So aal kal sab kuchh chalta hai ....Bhai. NJoy Life as it comes to you.

The writer uses his very narrow minded concept of morality to push his ideas upon others whereby using hs views to judge the actions of others. He takes a few examples and makes them out to be the norm as far as affairs are concerned which is are in reality far from what really happens in the context of affairs. And why should they not happen? For a long time sex between two people has been confined in the straight jacket of marriage which has lead to plenty of unhappy marriages where either of the partners is sexually satisfied. Only now have people started looking for sexual satisfaction outside the boundaries of what is a society filled with old fashioned concepts of what is acceptable and not.

Dear Author:
Is this so-called ``Infidelity`` your observation or you have any figures to back it up?
My gut feeling is that there is more Infidelity in Western countries than in Indian sub-continent. Perhaps, Western society does not seem to mind it as much as Indian does.

COuld you please answer the question you posed in the Title of this article..? Because i couldnt find it while reading it, the article wasnt a bad observation though.

Re: # 30
Oye Tainu ki.
Tainu Manji vi nahee milley? Nikamma Kithon da.....

Quote: ``She was not particularly attractive but when she wore her cardigan inside the British Consulate one could discern her rather excited anterior aureoles.``

Hahaha - what a clinically sterile manner to describe breasts...

And no, I didn`t understand what the purpose and conclusion of this article was either.

i dont mind frustrating articles...if they have such fantastic conclusions......u remembered everything about the past when an affair was applied......but why didnt u remember to make a point......all u had was cousins and hand shakes with no hint of the why they tried infidelity......ammara

Bhatti Saab #31: ``hahahahahaha good one. you can be funny..once in a while.. most of th teime you are ridiculous though``

Too bad I cannot say that for you..........You are ridiculous all the time!!

Re: # 17 Actually, it`d be more interesting if the wife tries to sell it to whoever made that comment :)

#27 by Romair

[You had already designated us to be evil, disoriented, pathetic killing machines. Are we now sexually depraved also?]

It is a cause and effect thing. The latter leads to the former. As the resident know-all of Chowk, I thought it`d be easy for you to figure it out. But as delhiwala put it in # 29, ``...there are always new things to discover.....``

This piece might have worked if the arthur was being sarcastic, but appears to be earnest in his exhortations, so the best one can say is

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HAHAHHAHAHAAHHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA

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snort

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HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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pardon the pun on name, it`s one of those days...

#29. some one died in Seattle lately. and it was a Horse who was involved in the incident. From the story I still can`t make what actually happened ..I mean the mechanics of it.

Master Bishen?

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hahahahahaha good one. you can be funny..once in a while.. most of th teime you are ridiculous though

Re: # 25 either avoid calling someone a `friend` or learn to keep the secrets.
rgds