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Articles with tag: sex

All Boys

Vaibhav Jain   Oct 13, 2009   interacts: 36

While America is grappling with gay marriage, we sat celebrating the second Queer Pride Parade in Delhi, Kolkata and Bangalore.

The Smile of Dinah

Ayesha Umar   Feb 2, 2009   interacts: 6

She seems gazing at me with a mockingly triumphant smile, head drenched in blood, eyes fixed upon me as if saying, ’You are a lair, dastard, unfaithful retard.’

What Happened To Tania?

Nikhat Rasool   Jan 26, 2009   interacts: 28

Tania! My daughter… Our dream daughter, Sara’s and mine. It’s been six months now since she had gone. Where and why, I don’t know?

Nothing Queer About It

Zarrar Said   Dec 3, 2008   interacts: 105

Homosexuality is demonstrated in all species from fruit flies to donkeys. Humans are no exception to this rule and the fact is that sexual orientation is an inborn combination.

Psychology of Men's Honour and Women's Sexuality

Khalid Sohail   Jan 3, 2008   interacts: 122

When Eastern women become financially and emotionally independent their husbands start losing control and become abusive and violent

Secret Life of Gays in New Delhi

Mayank AustenSoofi   Nov 21, 2007   interacts: 16

On all other days, Pegs N Pints is "normal" - strictly straight. But on Tuesday evenings as the clock struck ten, queers start trickling out of their closets.

The Proposition

Shaique Hussain   Nov 6, 2007   interacts: 2

The halala was solemnized. At 11, Iqtidar had his first experience of the flesh. Naghma was facilitated in her return to the man she really loved.

Sex Education For the Next Generation

Khalid Sohail   Sep 7, 2007   interacts: 370

Sex education based on science, medicine and human psychology rather than cultural and religious superstitions help make rational and responsible choices in life.

The Choice of Leading a Gay Life

Ali Kamran   Jul 18, 2007   interacts: 34

‘forcing them to marry hoping he or she will change’ – such a approach invites anger, irritation, tensions and worse absolute breakdown of relations.

Child Prostitution in Arizona

Sidra Omer   Mar 22, 2007   interacts: 3

Although the Task Force is focusing its efforts on the supply, mainly prostitutes and pimps, there’s a practical problem of how to help these children.

Sex and Censorship in the Cinema

Abdul Mustafa   Dec 7, 2006   interacts: 78

There is a growing trend in cinema, especially so-called Independent and World Cinema, to show real sex on screen. This trend is especially true in Europe and raises the interesting question of censorship and its value and place in a civilised society.

Innocence, Loss and Nagan Chowrangi

moe Irahkob   Oct 19, 2006   interacts: 70

Barron swerved the car through the Nagan Chowrangi, took the turn toward 'Karachi Broast' and parked in front of the non-descript house. He called Farah on her cellphone. 'Open the door, we are here'.

On Sexual Liberation, Extremism and Simple Hypocrisy

farrukh kamrani   Sep 8, 2006   interacts: 29

Mr. Ishtiaq Ahmed’s article Convoluted Hypocrisy and Extremism published in the Daily Times on May 30, is a curious read affording us a unique opportunity to see the capacity some people have to retain and propagate wrong and distorted ideas!

My Summer of ’69

ahmad hayat   Jun 20, 2006   interacts: 82

It all happened three years ago, not quite a long period, but to me it seems like it happened, perhaps, an hour ago. I seem to be stuck in a moment I can’t get out of...

Internet Relationships – Blessing or Curse?

Khalid Sohail   Mar 9, 2006   interacts: 25

As a student of human psychology I feel that the mystery of internet relationships stimulates people’s imagination and they start the relationships where reality merges with fantasy

Heidi Fleiss and Shahrukh Khan – Spot the Difference!

Farzana Versey   Feb 6, 2006   interacts: 86

Will Heidi’s male brothel empower women? In Shahrukh’s film why does the woman submit to a ghost only when he transforms into a look-alike of her husband? Why has it now become our overarching ambition to reveal liberalism mostly through the l

Could I Handle Two?

Atif    Dec 7, 2005   interacts: 164

As I buckled down to receive simultaneous massages from two girls, my thoughts drifted back to the previous summer

Night Out

soma sarkar   Oct 20, 2005   interacts: 37

Mrs. Da Cuhna handled death like she handled life. Head-on, with zest. Today was Joe, her husband’s funeral.

Lynddie’s Smile

soma sarkar   Oct 1, 2005   interacts: 6

There’s something pathological about her ability to smile.

The Ultimate Betrayal

sajal javid   May 26, 2005   interacts: 381

She sobbed as he put his hands around her and whispered in a hushed voice, “Don’t cry honey, I am here and I love you, its ok! Don’t worry, I am here”, as his hands drifted all over her body making her cringe with revulsion.

Sultan Mints

Nadeem F Paracha   May 12, 2005   interacts: 33

Yes, sir, she sure felt like living in a pornographic film. A film made by sex fanatics.

Gay Men and Mischievous Boys

Amrita Rajan   May 2, 2005   interacts: 156

“Yaargh!” said Cleopatra as she walked off stage. “She kissed me!”

Parents and the Pill

Zehra Rizvi   Apr 29, 2005   interacts: 523

Which desi girl goes around asking her father, when she is unmarried, or even when she is married, to call in a birth control prescription?

Chandni Bar

Saad Siddiqui   Apr 17, 2005   interacts: 33

There’s no sex, there’s no physical interaction, there’s no stripping or lap dances. Just a few girls wearing skirts and flimsy blouses dancing away and staring at you... What reason could there be for 40-something men to waste their tim

A Journey Through Our Conscience

sajal javid   Apr 7, 2005   interacts: 305

Up to eighty percent of the thousands of women incarcerated presently in Pakistani jails are facing charges related to the Hudood Ordinance, and most cases involve women being charged with adultery after they have allegedly been raped.

You are Not Ready for Desilicious

Shan Anwar   Mar 3, 2005   interacts: 12

In a city long past “firsts”, it is New York’s first social space for queer desis to party amongst their own. In doing so, they have defied the accumulated traditions and prejudices of their native and adopted lands.

Holistic Education

Shandana Minhas   Feb 28, 2005   interacts: 10

Because of the very silence they believe will nurture their children’s innocence, families place their children at greater risk even as they seek to protect them... In the absence of a parent child dialogue, teachers can talk to children about cult

Black Longings

Farzana Versey   Feb 8, 2005   interacts: 31

'Will you kiss me, please?' she pleaded. Are the desires and dreams of the disabled all bleak? I had spoken to two blind people to understand their concept of love and sex.Why should their needs and emotions be any different from ours?

America’s Moral Compass

Omar Mirza   Jan 30, 2005   interacts: 164

The Western social contract is far more tolerant and fair than the Islamic social contract rooted in 7th century notions of intolerance.

Let’s talk to Mallika Sherawat’s Breasts

Farzana Versey   Jan 4, 2005   interacts: 49

Does that reduce her in any way? Do you know of any woman who has got silicon implants to help in research or because she wants to be a well-padded mamma to her nursing infant? Was Paula Jones wrong in posing nude to support her kids?

The Porno Paradox

Rohit Gupta   Dec 22, 2004   interacts: 27

Pornographic websites were some of the first to make the Internet a business, and they are still the largest conduits by which new users are exposed to the Internet. The same pattern is being seen in cell phones.

When Vagina met Viagra

Farzana Versey   Dec 8, 2004   interacts: 50

The moment he puts you in his mouth, I can feel her anticipation. And we wait. When it works they say it’s because of you, for when it doesn’t they can say the same too!

Whorrible!

Zafar Anjum   Dec 7, 2004   interacts: 16

The film, part fiction, part documentary, was on the lives of prostitutes and was appropriately called Whore (Yo Puta in Spanish). Yo Puta should have correctly translated into I, Whore. It is based on Isabel Pisano’s eponymous book.

Losing It

Fitaa Feeraz   Dec 3, 2004   interacts: 23

The beloved Lahori culture known only for its eating and ‘Heera Mandi’. This is the city where I spent my youth. There is no denying here that losing it in Karachi can be quite different from losing it in Lahore, and a hell lot different from

Lesbians vs. Gays vs. Hinduism vs. Modernity?

Farzana Versey   Jun 21, 2004   interacts: 212

The only reason I am glad about the Girlfriend ’outing’ is because it concerns women. Lesbians have always been the secondary sex among gays. Patriarchy, even of the limp-wristed kind, still rules.

The Palate’s Passionplay

Farzana Versey   Apr 16, 2004   interacts: 47

A low moan is the sound of satiation, after breaking bread as well as in bed. Both food and sex make full use of our senses

Bus

Sucheta Potnis   Mar 30, 2004   interacts: 45

What is it, she wondered, her eyes still closed. ’Feels like an elbow’ - the answer came up in her mind. ’Maybe the owner of the elbow doesn’t know it is there’, she thought.

That Whore

Urstruly    Mar 29, 2004   interacts: 90

'Angraizi chummi?…ughh… that is gross' she raised her eyebrows 'you didn't tell me that…'

What Is the Point of Marriage?

A Shiraz   Mar 17, 2004   interacts: 52

All went well until people began to fall in love with anyone and everyone.

To Love or to Like?

Temporal    Oct 15, 2003   interacts: 44

Cross gender and cross generation friendship is an under explored subject in literature and in movies. Yes, we have Sugar Daddies and Mammas and Trophy Wives and Girl Friends. But that is exploitative and not the norm.

So Far Away From Me!

K Anish Pokharel   Oct 13, 2003   interacts: 2

in today’s world where people get their would-be spouse to sign an affidavit of compensation lest they cheat on them, chastity is indeed expensive!

Sex and the Saudi

Haroon Moghul   Oct 12, 2003   interacts: 94

Imagine you’re a Saudi man, tired from a day of beating your Bengali worker...

Do Foes of Gay Marriages Simply Fear Joy?

Tarek Fatah   Sep 21, 2003   interacts: 274

As these couples embraced their future together, we couldn’t help but feel sad for Canada’s gay and lesbian couples who are being pilloried for seeking the same happiness.

Reproductive Health Education

Sadaf S Kamwani   Sep 4, 2003   interacts: 28

Reproductive health education or sex education is considered as a taboo subject in our society. To know its reason for being called taboo, I took an interview of ten educated young people (excluding health professionals) regarding their understanding

Tolerating Sexuality

Parthasarathy B   Jul 30, 2003   interacts: 36

Crime and Sex

The Vagina Monologues

Khadija Hassan   Jul 29, 2003   interacts: 300

One Eve banished us from Heaven. Another is helping us discover the heaven within ourselves. One Eve is blamed in Western theology for initiating sin and instilling self-loathing in her daughters.

The Quilt

Godot    Jul 24, 2003   interacts: 21

Translated from Urdu, Ismat Chughtai’s ‘Lihaf’

Closet

N J   Nov 18, 2002   interacts: 122

obviously there are thousands of Khurram out there with their conflicting mind sitting in the darkness of the closet looking for the light

Perfect Women. Imperfect Men

Nafees Ghaznavi   Oct 24, 2002   interacts: 68

women should also be able to fulfill their responsibilities towards their homes

The Discovery

Ana B J   Sep 8, 2002   interacts: 45

A young office worker makes a discovery

My Last Chappu

Shankar    Aug 25, 2001   interacts: 213

it was a real beauty!

Little White Pills

A Bismil   Jun 17, 2001   interacts: 76

Warning (Mature Content ) - He said goodbye to Rahul and his misery.

Of Boylove and Boylovers

Sabia Ahmed   Aug 31, 1999   interacts: 223

We (even in the oh-so-liberal West) live in a more conformist society that we are led to believe

Deprivation

Shandana Minhas   Aug 13, 1999   interacts: 43

This is my story. Leave me and you die

Fire Alarm

Anaamika    Dec 11, 1998   interacts: 11

As religious fundamentalists turn movie critics, what’s next for women?

Miracle Workers at Shifa

Umair A Khan   Nov 18, 1998   interacts: 13

Battling disease and taboos: from male genitalia and female sexuality to kidney stones and hypertension.

Tania

Umair A Khan   Nov 20, 1997   interacts: 15

Tania. He has looks, he has a BMW, he has all the girls he can handle, said Saadia beginning to wrap the phone cord around her fingers.

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